Tips for listening to your Toddler

Because toddlers have a limited vocabulary and can only make simple sentences, it can often be difficult to communicate with them. However, taking the time to really listen to your toddler can help boost her self-esteem, make her feel loved and enhance her ability to speak, as well. Here are some simple tips to help you listen to your toddler and build her communication skills.

• Don't Criticize her grammar

You should listen closely to what your toddler is trying to tell you instead of focusing on any grammatical errors she might make. There will be plenty of time later for her to learn the finer points of grammar.

• Be Patient with your Toddler

Don’t interrupt or show any signs of impatience with your toddler when she is trying to talk. If she sees you tapping your foot or sighing while she is talking, she may become frustrated or upset, which will make it even more difficult for her to communicate with you.

• Set aside time each day to talk with your toddler

It is important for your toddler to know that she has your undivided attention when she is talking to you. Try to set aside some quiet time each day so that you can talk with her without any interruptions, such as the telephone or television.

• Answer her questions using simple words

Toddlers become easily frustrated when they can’t understand what they are being told. When your toddler asks you a question, try to answer her with simple words and sentences that she can easily understand.

• Shower her with Praise

Be sure to let your toddler know how proud you are of her when she communicates with you. Tell her how grown up she is starting to sound as her vocabulary and grammar skills improve.

 

It will take time and practice for your toddler to learn to speak and use grammar correctly. If you are patient with her and really listen to what she is trying to say, you will be helping develop your toddler’s ability to communicate effectively with others.